Most people are so stuck in their Egos that everything revolves around Me, Me, and more of Me. But if you want to be rich in the Truest sense of the word, it can’t only be about You. It has to include adding value to other people’s lives." The self, especially as distinct from the world and other selves. In psychoanalysis, the division of the psyche that is conscious, most immediately controls thought and behavior, and is most in touch with external reality. An exaggerated sense of self-importance; conceit. Appropriate pride in oneself; self-esteem.