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To become a blogger and Author, lot of research has been done looking into the benefits of friendship even in the time of Global recession, and the research has found exactly what you might expect.
It turns out that the better quality relationships you have; the more likely you are to be happy. Therefore it’s good for your happiness to be a great friend to someone and to have a group of good friends supporting you. But it can be hard to pinpoint exactly what makes a good friend.
Signs of a good friend
Friends will come and go in your life, but more important than how long a
friendship lasts, is that a good friend will love you for who you are. The way
you can tell the sign of a good friend is by looking at the actions they take –
big and small – that show they care.
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What makes a good friend? | Reach out Australia
It can be hard to pinpoint exactly what
makes a good friend. Read this fact sheet for signs of a good friend, and get
tips on how to be there for someone.
Having good friends is really important to your happiness. Figure out the signs
of a good friend, and learn tips for how to be there for your friend when they
need it.
This can help if…
you’re not sure about a friendship
you don’t know what to do or say to a friend
you want to figure out what a good friend is
What can I do now?
Get tips on being a good listener
Ask your friends what you can do to help them
Find out what to do if you’re having a hard time with friends
Why good friends are so important
A lot of research has been done looking into the benefits of friendship, and the
research has found exactly what you might expect. It turns out that the better
quality relationships you have; the more likely you are to be happy. Therefore
it’s good for your happiness to be a great friend to someone and to have a group
of good friends supporting you. But it can be hard to pinpoint exactly what makes
a good friend.
Signs of a good friend
Friends will come and go in your life, but more important than how long a
friendship lasts, is that a good friend will love you for who you are. The way
you can tell the sign of a good friend is by looking at the actions they take –
big and small – that show they care.
Some common signs of a good friend include
someone who will support you no matter what
someone you can trust and who won’t judge you
someone who won’t put you down or deliberately hurt your feelings
someone who is kind and has respect for you
someone who will love you because they choose to, not because they feel like they
should
someone whose company you enjoy
showing loyalty
being trustworthy and willing to tell you the truth, even when it’s hard
someone who can laugh when you do
someone who is willing to stick around when things get tough
someone who makes you smile
someone who is there to listen
someone who will cry when you cry.
How to be a good friend
If you want to do all or many of the things listed above for someone you care
about, you’re already a good friend. It’s also common though, to not know exactly
what to do or say to be there for someone. Some practical things you can do to be
there for a friend include:
Listen. Listening is so important not to underestimate, but it can be hard to do.
The best way to listen is to try and understand the situation from your friends’
point of view. If you aim to do this, you’ll naturally find yourself beginning to
ask the right sort of questions and they will appreciate having someone who
really cares about how they feel and what they’re going through. You don’t have
to have all the answers, and you shouldn’t assume your friend wants advice – they
might just want to talk so that they can work out what they’re going to do
themselves.
Ask them what they need. If you’re worried about someone and you want to be there
for them, just ask them what they need- that way you know what they find helpful
during tough times, and you can be there in a way that’s most useful to them.
Get physical. Smiles and hugs are a great way to show friends that they’re not
alone, that you’re there for them, and that they are important.
Keep in touch. Even if you guys aren’t nearby each other, making an effort to
keep in touch through facebook, emails, texts and calls will show your friend you
are there for them.
Tell them how you feel. You don’t have to make a big deal of it all the time but
sometimes there are moments where letting someone know that they’re important to
you through something you say, can make a big difference to how someone is
feeling.
Get the facts. If your friend has a medical condition, or a mental health issue,
a good way to offer support is to learn about what they’ve been diagnosed with.
Taking an interest in what they’re going through shows that you care, and that
you’re planning to stick around no matter what’s going on.
Be willing to make a tough call. If you think the safety of your friend is at
risk, you might need to act without their consent and get help (see the sidebar
for where you can seek help). It can be a hard choice particularly when you’re
worried about their reaction, but remember that you are acting because you care
and you don’t want them to be hurt.
Happy Landings ...........
Capt Shekhar Gupta
CEO
AeroSoft Corp
Asiatic International Aviation Corp
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Email : shekhar@asiaticair.in
